What Are Friendship Goals?
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No matter the level of chemistry in friendship, work still needs to be done to keep it going and ensure mutual growth. Friendship goals aren't rules but guides that keep our cordiality alive and cement our bonds. They are the perfect examples of the friendship we picture - the scenarios we wish to bring to reality with our friend(s). They are crucial because they fulfill our dreams of moving further in any relationship.
The Importance Of Friendship Goals.
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Friendship goals satisfy our general well-being with our friendship needs. One distinct attribute of friendship goals is that they make us happier and build the rapport we have with friends. Life is already hectic. We don't want to lose the shoulder we rest.
Friendship goals do not necessarily mean there would not be misunderstandings. They mean we get to make the best out of the time we spend with loved ones.
30 Best Friendship Goals For Different Friendship Situations
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All Friends- General Friendship Goals~
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These are goals to bear in mind for a healthy friendship in any case. They are the anchors in our relationships.
1. Be There To Listen
Sometimes people want to let their feelings out rather than seek counsel. We should be their listening ear and not be their advisor- try as much as possible to avoid giving unsolicited advice.
2. Show Kindness Always
What is friendship without kindness? Without benevolence, we would notice that we start to grow apart from our friends. We should be kind, always.
3. Nurture Empathy, Build Understanding
Thinking of ourselves in their shoes and trying to see things from their perspective is crucial. Even though we don't understand them perfectly, knowing that we are there for them is comforting to them and us.
4. Avoid Criticism As Much As Possible
Nobody is perfect. Once in a while, constructive criticism is needed in friendships. Friends also deserve encouragement and praise. There should be a balance- more praise.
5. Check Up On Them
Try to keep in touch. Perhaps, there was a cause for separation, like a change in school or work. Checking up on our friends shows that we care.
Best Friends- Amazing Bestie Goals For Pleasure
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Best friends tend to have a lot of similarities, and there's nothing better than friends having common interests. Best friends' goals:
1. Explore Interests Together
Whatever our interests are, it is interesting to participate in it with our best friends. From practicing singing or dancing together to the movies you both enjoy, we get to enjoy our besties' company.
2. Give Each Other Feedback
We may decide to try different or the same things separately or together. Giving our friends feedback brews exciting conversations.
3. Keep Each Other Updated
We may get information or the latest news about an interest we share with besties. It is only natural that we let them know and vice versa. Besties who keep each other in the loop go far.
4. Laugh Together And At Each Other
Some things we discuss with our closest friends make us laugh. But, when we are the subjects of our conversations, we laugh too. We don't have a best friend if we don't laugh at each other.
5. Be Honest Always
It is easier, to be honest with besties than with ordinary friends. Sometimes we need heart-to-heart conversations to speak frankly. Besides, friendship and lies can never mix.
High school Friends- Fun Goals To Ignite Friendship~
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To maintain a solid friendship despite the hurdles of high school where drama seems non-stop, below are some fun friendship goals for high schoolers.
1. Spend Lunch Time Together
During break is a good time for us to catch up with the latest gists with our friends, especially if we're in different classes. Sharing food with a friend and talking about that annoying teacher, a crush we have, or anything is entertaining.
2. Walk Home Together
After school closes is another time to catch fun with friends. Walking home together gives room for communication, laughs, and enjoying each/one another's company.
3. Help Each Other Out With School Work
High school friendship doesn't exist if this is not in the equation. Helping each other defines high school friendship. It is soothing when we know our friends have our backs while we have theirs when school assignments come knocking.
4. Explore More Personal Interests
Yes, more. There are always new things to learn about people, even our friends. This period of exploring creates a robust bond and is fun because we may even be shocked.
5. Sleepover!
Now let's talk about where all the deep secrets get exchanged! The fun that comes with sleepovers: those movies and popcorn, pillow fights, never have I ever, video games, truth or dare, the list continues. Sleepovers are the most exciting and fun part of high school friendships.
College/University Friends- Engaging Friendship Goals for Growth~
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College/University is where we learn to live like adults. We would make mistakes, but our friends make the journey fabulous.
1. Explore The City
Where we study affects how this would be for us. In a new environment exploring the city or town is a sure game. If we are studying locally, we may explore with new friends by showing them around.
2. Travel Around
Unlike the former, this covers a broader space such as visiting other cities or states- A time for several delightful pictures and discovering new places and resorts.
3. Encourage Studying
We can't forget that there's still study to do. Peer study makes more sense if we are coursemates. A friend who encourages us to read in college is priceless.
4. Talk And Laugh Out The Stress
A good laugh is healthy and good for stress relief. Whether sitting under the shade or basking in the sun, quality conversation and jokes make us feel better.
5. Build Your Bond With Food
During our free time, we should visit new restaurants and try their food. It is a good bonding time and a time to catch fun. The quality of the food is secondary, the primary is that we're in it with our friends.
Colleagues- Meaningful Friendship Goals For Mutual Boost~
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Navigating the workplace is stressful, especially in a competitive atmosphere. A friend in the system makes coping easier.
1. Look Out For Each Other At Work
It is nice to know that someone has our back at work, whether we work together or in different departments. Also, we may help each other check for mistakes if our line of work is the same as our friends.
2. Meet Up After Work
It is good to go for after-work drinks- a way to relax after a hectic day. It is a time when we can talk about how the day was- fruitful or unproductive, work challenges, and personal difficulties without judgment.
3. Listen To Each Other's Work Issues
We would relate well to our friends' work problems because we know how things go. They may talk to other friends, but no one can get it better than us- their work friends.
4. Motivate Each Other To Attain Greater Heights
Friends are the best versions of themselves when they are with us. As colleagues who are friends, we should encourage each other to do more so that we can grow together.
5. Visit Each Other On Weekends/Free Time
Our relationship with friends at work should not be limited to work alone; we should also take it out to visitation. If we separate, friendships restricted to work alone would perish.
Long-Distance Friends- Goals To Get The Best Out of Long-Distance Friendship
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Our friendship can still grow regardless of distance. We can grow fonder of each other. What goals improve long-distance?
1. Video Calls
Technology has made it possible for us to see our friends' faces even though they are far away. We get to see their faces, if not every day, at least once in a while.
2. Send Messages Across
Sending messages to long-distance friends shows that we care. Maybe not letters since the world has gone digital, but text messages and chats build fondness.
3. Keep Each Other Updated
It is fascinating how we could live in a place without being there. We should talk to our friends about local happenings and how life is where we are.
4. Never Miss A Chance To See
Whether we are in their town for an occasion or business trip we should find a way to see each other. The hugs, kisses, screams, and all emotions that come with seeing a friend after a long time are refreshing.
5. Travel To Each Other's Location
Traveling is different from the above because we have to visit where our friends stay and have the luxury of time to catch some activities we have on our bucket list.
How To Make Friendship Goals Work For You And Your Friends
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Friendship goals may come to naught if the effort is one-sided. Fuel to ignite or rekindle a friendship has to come from all the people involved. If we realize it is not symbiotic, we should talk to our friends about it and hope for change.
We need to ensure that while setting these goals to get the best out of friendship and have fun, we must respect the opinions of friends also.
Implement these tips and enjoy that friendship!
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