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After reading a post from this blog about Healthy Friendships and Relationships , I decided to share my story. My name is Jumoke! This is my life in words. Photo by Stormseeker on Unsplash   LOVE OR NOT? I grew up in a home without love This won't be my portion, I swore My  mother was always broken and shattered She cried and suffered- that is all I can remember I promised to never fall in love So my heart would never be torn My mistake was to think it didn't matter as I got older He came into my life when I lacked a friend and partner I forgot my childhood take on love In ignorance, I gave it a chance, and what? My fear became reality with tears and scars The dotting young man became a dictator and heartless ruler I had made a mistake by considering love! This was her mistake, my mom My life was the epitome of my mother's She had endured life to protect her only daughter I failed her! I failed her!! I thought. What if my mistake wasn't loving? What if it was a mistake...

What Are Friendship Goals? Photo credit- charmedlightph No matter the level of chemistry in friendship , work still needs to be done to keep it going and ensure mutual growth . Friendship goals aren't rules but guides that keep our cordiality alive and cement our bonds. They are the perfect examples of the friendship we picture - the scenarios we wish to bring to reality with our friend(s). They are crucial because they fulfill our dreams of moving further in any relationship. The Importance Of Friendship Goals. Photo credit- Kar-Tr Friendship goals satisfy our general well-being with our friendship needs. One distinct attribute of friendship goals is that they make us happier and build the rapport we have with friends. Life is already hectic. We don't want to lose the shoulder we rest. Friendship goals do not necessarily mean there would not be misunderstandings. They mean we get to make the best out of the time we spend with loved ones. 30 Best Friendship Goals For Different...

You are who you are ! Until you accept that, you will be a shadow of yourself. You are who you are! Until you believe that, anyone can hover you around. You are who you are! Until you see that, you are not living. Photo credit- filadendron Life is short and consists of day-to-day interactions; some are pleasant, others maybe not be as pleasurable. Despite these occurrences, your decision to get the best out of life is the priority. Your interactions with people and things influence your lifestyle positively or negatively. Image- Unsplash The sooner you realize that opinions don't make you who you are, the better. Nevertheless, being around people who understand you and have your best interest at heart goes a long way in building you because there is nothing like a supportive company . A judgemental company would find faults and may be prone to chastise you before considering correction. Image- Unsplash "You should feel good and enjoy every bit of life, smile more, frown less,...

A unique attribute of friendship and relationship generally is that there's continual growth. In this process parties involved would get to know one another better and build a more concrete chemistry. Are you wondering how to go about these? We got you covered. Background image by Jacoblund (iStock) 200 Questions to Ask For Improved Friendship/Relationship 1. Would you change yourself if you could? 2. How would you frankly describe the opposite gender? 3. I hope you know I'm always here for you? (could be rhetorical) 4. Do you think we would always be friends? 5. Which dream do you wish could come through? 6. What can you eat for the rest of your life without getting tired? 7. Which kind of movies do you like? 8. Which would you choose: Love or Money? 9. What is the worst nickname you've ever been given and why? 10. Is there a time you thought I went too far? 11. Have you ever stalked a crush? 12. Has a movie ever made you cry? Title? 13. Have you ever secretly taken money...

It is becoming mandatory in the society to have a classy presence. However, contrary to most perceptions, adopting a classy or elegant personality does not solely depend on wealth; there are other necessities that are equally important. We'd discuss them below. Design by Me   I have divided this into three major segments: 1. Health: This covers all most aspects regarding your body. Your health has a major role to play in elegance. The few tips listed below would help. Healthy Diet . From fruits and vegetables to other healthy meals. Ensure balance diet no matter how little the meal may be. Clean Lifestyle . Regular bath, regular brushing, regular body rubbing, clean clothes. You must pay  attention to these. Nice Smell . From fresh breath to nice body smell, you  can't ignore. There are outstanding cheap perfumes too. Cherished Skin . I'm not a fan of 'time-wasting' routines and if you want to work on budget, I don't advice you to. However, affordable skin flou...