Skip to main content

Important Keys To Stand Out And Be Unique

Photo credit- Anton Vierietin
To be honest, there are times we just need everyone's attention on us. Whether we just got new clothes, have a crush and want them to notice us, or maybe you spent hours on your makeup and you need complements, the list is endless.

I'd give a personal illustration at the end of this.

Let's dig in, shall we?

Be Unique:

I mean, that's the whole point. Show yourself for what you are because that is something no one else can, not a single person amongst the billions in the world.

Have a Signature:

Finding your signature may be the difficult, but, all you need to do is relax your body and let your mind do the thinking. It could be your style, approach, scent, etc. Remember Penelop Featherington in Bridgerton? Trust me you could never miss her with her different shades of yellow.

Look Elegant:

You should never undermine your look. Mind you, elegance doesn't have to be extravagant.

Be Observant:

You must know where you are and the people around or whom it is you want to notice you.

Make an Approach:

Lounging in your corner would not get you the spotlight dear, in rare cases, it might. You may approach them directly, stand or move around them, you could even shout. If you shout, they may shoot a disdainful look, but trust me, they saw you.

Be Cool 'n Moderate:

You don't want people to choke on your perfume or see you as one who moves around rapidly. Be calm.

Personal Experiences:

I am a shy person who likes the spotlight. This is a weird cliche but it is true. I am always noticed, WHY?

My personality is unique, my signature is my vocabulary, grammar and somewhat funny foreign accent. In addition, I never miss an opportunity to be included in 'the conversation', but I know my boundaries and sometimes force myself to hold back.

Let me know what you think in the Comments Section. And, share, someone might just need this.


 

Comments

Anonymous said…
I love this ,keep it up bro.
Gates Ogbebor said…
Thank you so much

Popular posts from this blog

How-to-Guide: How to Achieve your Goals in Nigeria and Abroad

  It is possible! Is Nigeria a Place of Achievement? The economy of Nigeria presently creates a big room for concern. From ASUU strike to the ever growing issue of unemployment. People may say Nigeria has literally become a dead end to achievements; I also accepted this until I began to make a lot weekly (When I started). The truth is that Nigeria would scarcely give room for your achievement- you have to create a room for yourself. Picture yourself trying to get groundnut(peanut) out of a bottle. At first all the groundnuts(peanuts) would move towards the bottleneck to come out, few may, but the others get stuck and you have to reshuffle. Nigeria is the large bottle and we (you and me) are the peanuts [don't get offended by the simile]. You probably just want me to say how I achieved my goals, we have gotten to that junction. Determine Your Goal This is were you tell yourself that you want to make it. After coming to the realization that you don't want to be in the same plac...

How Are You (My Friend) Song by Johnny Drille | Review and Lyrics | Video | Stream and Download

Johnny Drille's New Single.  I've listened to this song on repeat several times, and I thought it would be nice to blog about it since it has a significant relationship with friendship. Talented Nigerian singer-songwriter, John Ighodaro, professionally known as  Johnny Drille released a new single titled 'How Are You (My Friend)'  in October 2022. This new single is produced by Don Jazzy of Mavins Records and it has gone viral, even on the popular app, TikTok . How Johnny Drille managed to give a concise summary of friendship in this 3 minutes song is exceptional and it should be studied. He included the ups and downs of friendship, gave reassurance of the bond, and put the icing on the cake by maintaining the concrete love friends share through the lyrics . The song is emotional, soothing, and impeccable! Watch the Performance Music Video Here, From Youtube: Download/Listen to Music Here: Download Link 1 Download Link 2 Download Link 3 Official Lyrics: Intro I know so...

Meaning and Examples of Platonic Friendships and How to Make it Work.

An Overview of Platonic Friendship: Photo by Matt Nelson on Unsplash . "We are platonic friends, but she's not giving me sex!"... You need this!! Everyone needs this. Platonic friendship comes with several misconceptions and many theories about what it is. It can be tasking to maintain because feelings may set in. I got you. We all have friends we love and play with intimately but never think of dating. Do you? (Let me know in the comments). In this post, I talk about the meaning and examples of platonic friendship, what it entails, and popular misconceptions. What is Platonic Friendship? Image by Congerdesign on Pixabay Platonic friendship is a relationship between two people with a deep connection who are attracted to each other. It is intimate but not sexual. The bond feels like romance but without sexual interest. In a platonic relationship, there is usually a high level of trust, mutual vulnerability, and reciprocated time and affection. At some point, either party...