Is Your Friendship Boring? Try These Easy Fun Tips to Spice it Up!

Everyone speaks about getting into spiced up relationships and how they don't want boredom in their friendships; like speaking alone would change it. Speaking may not change it, but that's why this post is for you.

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There is nothing like an ecstatic friendship/relationship. This is what we want; despite subtle disputes, some greater than others, we want to feel great happiness and joy in togetherness.

How can You Experience this Happiness? Easy!!!

Know Your Friend(s)

They are your friends and that's why this should be the easiest tip to perform. Apart from saving you from disappointment, knowing their likes and dislikes bring fun to another level. Are you wondering how? The next tip says it all.

Engage Them Based on What You Know

This may seem very broad, virtually everything. But, not to overgeneralise this is also an easy key. What can you do?

If you always want to have fun based on what they like, it would introduce boredom because it would become tiring so shuffling would be the best- Introduce them to new things and probably things they said they would never try, be daring.

Tease them to Conversations

The best way to engage someone in a conversation is by starting in a catchy way. Teasing about who they liked or like, their baby pictures, or even with food would give room for discussion and communication which is a vital tool in any friendship. You could also start by comically saying what they may not like (not too sensitive) then you all can laugh about it afterwards.

Surprise them Periodically

It may not be scheduled in the sense that you surprise every '30th July'; as much as possible make it random. Surprising on specific dates or occasions would soon become tiring to the receiver. You can surprise them by

Giving gifts
Offering to take them out
Cooking for them
Introducing Game time, etc

Make sure you don't always have all the fun alone, it would feel like you are pushing the other(s) away which is not healthy for the relationship. You need privacy and that's understandable, we all do, but once it isn't privacy related, be conscious and ensure you don't push friends away.

Comments

Anonymous said…

Thanks for the knowledge you pass

2 June 2022 at 15:19

Gates Ogbebor said…

You're welcome. Thanks for reading.

5 June 2022 at 04:37

Anonymous said…

My girlfriend loved this.

11 July 2022 at 09:52

Gates Ogbebor said…

That is so nice. Thank you.

15 July 2022 at 16:31

Anonymous said…

Short and Distinct ❤️❤️

13 October 2022 at 05:17

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